Tag: Covid_19

What Does Your Boat Look Like?

One time a few years ago, some friends and John and I were in a small fishing motorboat on Lake Minnetonka on a super windy day.

We bounced hard across the water, hitting huge waves and getting drenched with lake spray. Large boats cruised by us without a backwards look, rocking us with their wake. ⠀

An anonymous thought has been going around about our Covid_19 crisis:

We’re all in the same storm, but we’re not in the same boat.

I don’t want to just cruise by the other boats in this season, oblivious to the challenges they are facing, but it’s hard. Circumstances have changed drastically for everyone.⠀

There are those who are exhausted and stretched thin, serving the needs of a whole crew trapped in the boat with them, while also doing a full-time job and wondering if their spouse will lose his.⠀

There are others who are isolated and lonely, grappling daily with depression and boredom.⠀

I’m an extrovert enneagram 7 sharing a boat with an introvert who’d probably prefer to be on a one-person jet-ski.

Some feel like their life raft is sinking and they’re barely hanging on, while others have created party boats, enjoying puzzles, wine, and virtual bingo.⠀

You may feel like you’re on a slow-moving funeral barge, or a solid, steady cruise ship.⠀

The danger I’ve found is assuming anything about the boat others are in.

I’ve been insensitive, forgetting to check in with some who are isolated.

I’ve also become frustrated with unresponsive friends who are stressed to the max on the other.

We need grace, grace, and more grace – for others, and for ourselves in these days.

I think of the verse that characterizes one of my mentors and is my prayer:

Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.

colossians 4:6

What does your boat look and feel like today? I really want to know!

I shared this first on Instagram. Would love to see you there!















Driving Blind

I listen in the darkened sanctuary as a young worship leader passionately describes an experience he had, standing on the Cliffs of Moher in Ireland

He says, “The sky was the brightest blue, and the grass an emerald green beneath my feet as I peered down over the jagged cliffs to watch seagulls dancing, and the waves throwing themselves at the shore.

I was so moved that I stepped back from the precipice and spontaneously started singing, ‘Oh Lord my God, when I in awesome wonder, consider all the worlds Thy hands hath made…I see the stars, I hear the roaring thunder, Thy power throughout the universe displayed…How great Thou art…’”

Instead of being moved, I have to work to keep from laughing! 

While my friend saw God’s awesome wonder that looked like this…

This is what I saw:

When I visited this iconic spot in Ireland, fog wrapped around us like wet wool. We inched along in our rented car, slowly climbing up the steep, narrow road, then down. 

At the bottom there was a small shop, so I went inside and asked, “Did we just drive past the Cliffs of Moher?”

With a lovely Irish accent, the salesgirl cheerfully answered, “Yes! It’s gorgeous! Would you like a postcard to see what you missed?” (insert eye roll)

In the fog at the Cliffs of Moher we felt disappointed, out-of-control, and a little scared on the edge of a cliff.

I’ve been thinking about our experience in Ireland during this “foggy” time of the pandemic when we can’t see clearly, we’re not sure exactly what’s next, and we’re disoriented.

How does the fog, or what you see right now make you feel?If you could name the effect of your “fog” right now what would it be?

You may feel like the Psalmist who wrote, Be merciful to me, Lord, for I am in distress; eyes grow weak with sorrow, my soul and body with grief.

Psalm 31:9

It may seem like you’re driving blind.

Could it be that God wants to use this blindness, like He did with Saul on the road to Damascus, to get our attention?

Maybe in the fog God wants to draw our attention to this: Our sight and power are limited, but His is not.

Elisha and his servant are in a “foggy” time in 2 Kings 6:15-17 when they are surrounded by the Arameans. Danger is the most visible thing.

When the servant of the man of God got up and went out early the next morning, an army with horses and chariots had surrounded the city. “Oh no, my lord! What shall we do?” the servant asked.

“Don’t be afraid,” the prophet answered. “Those who are with us are more than those who are with them.” And Elisha prayed, “Open his eyes, Lord, so that he may see.” Then the Lord opened the servant’s eyes, and he looked and saw the hills full of horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha.”

Maybe we need to ask, not “What am I seeing?”, but “What am I missing?”

If we had God’s view above the fog on the Cliffs of Moher we would have seen that:

  •  The fog was limited; it wasn’t as pervasive as it felt. There was a beginning and end.
  • Beauty was still there on the other side of the fog.

Think of the “fog” the disciples experienced the last week of Jesus’ life, walking to the cross! Nothing was going like they expected and they couldn’t see through the fog to the resurrection beyond the cross!

All they could see was pain, persecution, and death!

Jesus wasn’t acting like they thought He should, but He saw what they didn’t see. He knew what they didn’t know.  And He loved them beyond measure.

Because we live on the other side of the resurrection we have the benefit of seeing the empty tomb even when there is so much we can’t see.

We have this and many more evidences of God’s faithfulness in Scripture, so even in this confusing time we can trust that He will bring light and life.

This Easter may we lift our eyes above the fog of disorientation and fear and loneliness to the God who sees what we don’t see and knows what we don’t know, and loves us beyond measure.

Soul Food For the New Normal

As I post this, we are adjusting to the reality that this crisis is going to stretch on much longer that we had thought – feeling more like global extended rehab than a quick trip to the Minute Clinic.

It has the potential to bring out the best in us, but also may reveal some issues in our relationships that we’ve been glossing over. My prayer continues to be that we won’t fill our time with just a different set of numbing distractions, but will come out on the other side of this kinder, humbler, stronger, more self-aware.

So, here are some resources that I pray won’t be distractions, but add value and joy to your physically distanced day!

I always recommend this podcast, but I love, love, loved this episode from the Transforming Center with Ruth Hayley Barton and Steve Wiens, called Listening and Responding to God Amidst the Covid_19 Crisis.

Thanks to my sister-in-law, Susan for passing along this song so appropriate for this season.

I was fascinated by this photo essay called The Great Empty, showing famous places around the world and what they look like during this time of isolation. This emphasizes for me that we are all in this together – it is a global challenge that connects us all.

I love this story about a restaurant in California that is giving people the option of paying for catered meals to be delivered the departments of local hospitals as well as offering regular take out!

Also I’m encouraged by so many creative ways we’re finding to stay connected!

Our friend, Derek posted this, brightening our day.

For our part, we’re decorating and driving in a birthday car parade tomorrow morning. Stay tuned for pictures on Instagram, and daily devotional thoughts on my Stories.

We’re also all retaining our ability to laugh with and at each other!

This season has been a great one to try new recipes since I have a captive guinea pig (John)! The other night I made this – super easy, few ingredients and yummy!

Shrimp Scampi Pasta with Asparagus (VIDEO)

How are you holding up? What’s bringing you joy?

Soul Food for Long Days and Uncertain Times

The rhythm of our days looks very different in this season.

And yours, if you have littles, will look different than mine, or that of my missionary friends in Jordan, or my single friends in Hong Kong and New Zealand. But this crisis has knit us together across the globe, in ways we couldn’t imagine before.

I have not felt scared, but the other day, after a global prayer call was the first time I felt overwhelmed by the magnitude and implications of this pandemic for those outside my circle.

Then I got this note from our “adopted” son, Michael, who is a brand new doctor in Uganda. He writes, “We have very little to no personal protective equipment (ppe) such as N95 masks, goggles and gowns”, BUT then he goes on:

…some of us were manufactured for times like these. When the world needs us the most, our answer is always going to be “Here I am”

I and 5 other resident doctors have voluntarily been added to the COVID-19 treatment taskforce of the hospital. We have been fully trained on how to respond and remain safe throughout the management of a victim. 

From the view of events, only God can come to our rescue.  But is there a day or Moment when we asked for His kindness and He did not show up? NO!!

So I trust that even this time, the God we pray to and worship everyday will show up for us and save us.

May we be inspired by Michael, who is living out the truth of Romans 8!

we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Romans 8:37-39

I wrote on Instagram the other day that I’m convinced it’s not scientists that are going to come up with a vaccine for Covid_19, but desperate moms, stuck at home with their kids who have run out of creative ideas to keep everyone happy and engaged.

A few movies came to mind that might help with that (but are also great for adults)…

Spellbound – a documentary about 8 kids who are compete in the 1999 National Spelling Bee.

Akeelah and the Bee – fiction, about a young girl from south L.A. trying to make it to the National Spelling Bee.

Queen of Katwe – about a young girl from Uganda that discovers she has an amazing talent for chess and how it changes her life.

And if you want a fun comedy, check out The Trouble With Angels – about two students at a convent school who are very creative with their pranks.

And if you haven’t seen A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood, now’s the time!

A few posts from Instagram to make you smile…

This has been posted everywhere, but I could watch/listen to it indefinitely. In case you haven’t seen it yet, soak these words in.

I’ve been trying to share a little devotional thought in my Instagram stories each morning, and if you’d like to see past ones, I’m saving them on my story highlights under “Covid_19 Devos”.

What’s keeping you inspired, motivated, and encouraged these days? Share in the comments! (If you’re commenting for the first time, it won’t show up right away, but don’t worry, it will soon!)

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